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Forgiveness – the Extended Version

I’m learning to extend more and more forgiveness to others. After all, God has forgiven me for ALL my sins.  Plus I may need someone else to forgive me one day too.

When We Fall…

After removing Saul, he made David their king. God testified concerning him: ‘I have found David son of Jesse, a man after my own heart; he will do everything I want him to do.” – Acts 13:22 (NIV)

I love the fact that God called David of all people,  “a man after his own heart”.  In fact, God chose him and appointed him ruler over Israel, because of this.  Why is this relevant/important?  Because God, being God, knowing ALL things including what was to come – chose David and identified him as a “man after his own heart”.  If you don’t know the full story see I Samuel chapter 16 and then II Samuel chapters 11 and 12 for context.

In the story David is chosen by God to be Israel’s new king.  After many successful victories, David ‘falls’.  Long story short, he lusts after a married woman, sleeps with her and gets her pregnant, befriends her husband (one of his own soldiers) and then puts a plan in place to have him killed in battle.  David’s plan succeeds and the other man is reported dead.  Then this ‘man after God’s own heart’ lets the wife mourn briefly, then marries her to ‘cover up the affair’, she has the baby and they continue with day to day life as if nothing has happened!  See you haven’t seen a real Lifetime movie until you’ve read the Bible!

God then sends his servant Nathan to confront David regarding the situation, as well as, to pronounce the punishment that God has set forth, which is not a light one at all:

Samuel 12:7-12 (NIV)

Then Nathan said to David, “You are the man! This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: ‘I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you from the hand of Saul.  I gave your master’s house to you, and your master’s wives into your arms. I gave you all Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more. Why did you despise the word of the Lord by doing what is evil in his eyes? You struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword and took his wife to be your own. You killed him with the sword of the Ammonites. Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you despised me and took the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.  This is what the Lord says: ‘Out of your own household I am going to bring calamity on you. Before your very eyes I will take your wives and give them to one who is close to you, and he will sleep with your wives in broad daylight. You did it in secret, but I will do this thing in broad daylight before all Israel.’”

After all this, there is no denial, no excuses, no lying, and no running away.  David simply responds as follows:

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This response, is genuine, basic, straightforward and true.  In his words of confession that “he has sinned against the Lord”, David not only acknowledges his sin, but he shows agreement with God by calling what God has deemed as sin to be sin.  It is this very reason that God seeing David’s heart, and knowing exactly what sin David would commit when he appointed him as king, that God still considered him to be ‘a man after his own heart’.  David wasn’t perfect, Continue reading →

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